Last week, members of the CRC community gathered for one of the most intimate and meaningful observances on our Jewish calendar: Tisha B’Av.
While Tisha B’Av is traditionally a day of communal mourning, at CRC we have embraced it as something deeply personal as well—a time to gather in community, make space for grief, and remember those whose lives continue to shape our own.
As we sat together in a circle, stories began to unfold. Members shared memories of parents, spouses, siblings, children, mentors, friends, and loved ones whose absence is still deeply felt. Some losses were recent and raw. Others stretched back decades. Yet each story reminded us that love leaves an enduring imprint, and that remembering together can be a powerful act of healing.
One by one, candles were lit as names were spoken aloud. The growing circle of light became a visible reminder that no one grieves alone. Each flame represented a unique life, a cherished relationship, and a memory entrusted to the community for safekeeping.
Rabbi Randy reflected that Judaism does not ask us to avoid grief or rush through it. Instead, our tradition recognizes mourning as an essential part of a full and authentic life. When we create space for sorrow, we also create space for compassion, connection, and ultimately, renewal.
For many who attended, the evening offered something increasingly rare: the opportunity to speak honestly about loss in the presence of people willing simply to listen. There was no expectation to fix grief or explain it away—only to bear witness to one another’s stories with tenderness and care.
We are deeply grateful to everyone who joined us, shared their memories, lit a candle, or quietly held space for others. In a world that often asks us to move on too quickly, this gathering was a reminder that community is built not only through celebrations, but also through the courage to accompany one another in times of sorrow.
May the memories of all those we honored continue to be a blessing, and may we carry their light with us in the days and years ahead.
Yehi zichram baruch — May their memories be for a blessing.